”We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” – Winston Churchill
You’re defined by what you give.
And every time you give, you’re making a sacrifice. But the joy of putting a smile on another persons face is worth it. Don’t you agree?
As an organisation, This is why we do what we do and word on the street is – We’re one of the best at this.
We encourage it in our staff, team members and family – And you’re family.
You’re a spec, You’re Unique and You’re a Gift to Humanity.
That said, here’s 5 powerful ways you can spread your gift with others everyday.
- Give Your Undivided Attention: Ever had to listen to a child tell a story? They’re all over the place with plot twist and you get lost. You want them to get to the point immediately but no… You have to hear the back story from 3 months ago..However, with kids, It’s about the spotlight.Having your undivided attention. As adults, we still have this “need”.And it’s a joy to be on the receiving end of it. Giving someone your undivided attention when you’re spoken to is how you help them feel loved and understood. And this is FREE
- Give Your Appreciation: Ever had someone compliment you on something you’ve been doing and thinking no one has noticed? It could be a little compliment on how you are always cheerful even when things are not going too great. How you’re always resourceful. How good your new hair looks. Your nice shirt. etc A heartfelt compliment is something we all enjoy.What’s best? I’ve found the most gratifying compliments are the ones that come from thoughtful observation. See what others are doing well and give a deserved compliment to light up their day.
- Give Acceptance: We all have people in our life we just don’t understand. It’s like you never get them or they never get you. Worse still is when you see that trying to change them is an uphill task.While you should always set boundaries and never allow yourself to be mistreated in any way, shape, or form. You should learn to accept people for who they are. This is where acceptance comes in. Always focus on the things you can control in such situations – your responses, your choices, how you react – and free yourself of the need to force others to change It’s best to show people how it’s done by treating them how we want to be treated and walking away when it no longer benefits.
- Give Your Forgiveness: “I can forgive but I cannot forget is only another way of saying ‘I don’t forgive.’” – Henry Ward Beecher Let’s agree to disagree Henry. ( Side note, because it’s a quote does not automatically make it true eh?) Let me make my case. You need to remember how you’ve been hurt in the past to enable you make better and smarter decisions in the future. Think of all the things you know not to do now. It all came from making mistakes. However, No one at the end of their life says “I wish I was angrier for longer at so and so”.One day, you’d let go of the hurt, anger, pain, and disappointment. Why not let that day be today? This is a gift to give yourself.
- Share Your Light: “Somewhere underneath all our fears, insecurities, and hurts, we each have a light ”. – Lori Deschene Your light can shine brighter because of the darkness you’ve experienced in the past. But you can only access them after you’ve properly dealt with the pain. Learn to clear your head of worry and anxiety and be fully present wherever you are. You are worthy, beaurifullll, and valuable. – You’re a SPEC. Believe this and act on it. You can act on this by doing something from your heart. something that shares your light with others. No matter how small you think your act of kindness is – in fact, if you think the act of kindness you’re about to perform is too small – Just DO it.Every tiny act of love and kindness makes the world a better place.
Feeling inspired…. Here’s your opportunity to give and help with what we do Best!