In life, as we grow in age and experience three words are important and they are: Love, trust and Friend(ship).

Love is a feeling of intense attraction towards someone. It is a choice and a decision. Trust is confidence in or reliance on some person or quality. Friend is a person other than family member whose company one enjoys and towards whom one feels affection.

You must trust someone for friendship to have its way and once friendship is established growing in love very easy.

This life is too short to love, trust and be friends with people that are not worth it.

Just so you know, friendship has two major requirements ; attraction and interest.

I believe there must be a particular thing about that person that draws your attention, you can’t just be friends with someone for the sake of it. It could be their personality, physique, principles or even money, lol.

It is also important that you both have a similar area of interest. This would help you to set a common goal that’s achievable, it would help you to grow together in love and also work towards the realization of your set goals. What attracted you to the people you call friends today?

People come into our lives for different reasons and their timings also differ. A high level of sensitivity is required to properly slog this out. It is important to scrutinize our cycle of friends once in a while, this is to assist us in grouping and cross matching our friends and also identify those that are done and ready to leave because the door is always open for those coming in and those that might want to leave. Friendship they say it isn’t by force but we need one another to survive.

We are at liberty to choose our friends unlike the family we belong to by birth, we must choose wisely because no one can be blamed for our wrong choice(s) of friends.